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2012年10月12日 星期五

Is Christ-Consciousness the Same Thing As the "Buddha-Nature"?


When I speak of "Christ-consciousness" I am referring to the degree of your awareness along three lines. One is your awareness of yourself. I sometimes ask people, "Who are you when no one is looking?" It's an important question but, unfortunately, most people live as I lived for much of my adult life-completely out-of-touch or uncertain as to who they really are.

All of us wear a social mask, what psychologists often refer to as an ego. It is the image you have of yourself or the self-image you present to the world. What most people do not yet know, however, is that your ego, this image of yourself you display before the world, is not who you really are at all.

The real you is beneath and beyond the image you carry around in your head as to who you are, the image you want everyone to see and believe is you. The Christian theologian, Teilhard de Chardin put it like this: "We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, we are really spiritual beings having a temporary human experience." Until you know this, or know who you really are in the deepest place within you, you will live an "unconscious," or out-of-touch, existence. Or, to state it another way, the path to real happiness and wholeness in life starts with knowing who you are, as well as who you're not.

So, this is part of what I mean by "Christ-consciousness" or what Easterners call your "Buddha-nature." You could think of this in Biblical terms as the "soul," provided you don't get too Platonic about it and think of your soul as a separate entity captured temporarily in your body. I am referring only to your essential nature-who you really are beneath the facades-and there can be many of these. The ego in us is always changing and eventually dissolving.

People will often ask me, "How will I know when I know who I really am?"

And, the answer is, "When you no longer have to ask the question."

There's another aspect to "Christ-consciousness." The genuinely aware, or conscious, person, not only knows who she/he is beyond the social masks but, as a consequence, why he/she is here-that is, why he/she showed up on planet earth. One of the biggest mistakes made in recent Christian history has been this notion that we all showed up for a special "purpose." Christians know this as God's perfect and permissive wills. It's a whole lot of bunk, if you ask me.

Easterners are taught something similar in the teaching of dharma. It is this erroneous idea that you were created with a special purpose to fulfill on planet earth. So, what we've done, not only in Christianity but in other religions too, is create this insane expectation in people that their task in life is to figure out what they showed up to do.

You can guess the consequences of that nonsense. The overwhelming majority of people live a frustrating existence because they go through life never certain they've figured out why they really showed or what they're here to do. It's madness.

You really only showed up for one reason-to know God and to walk with her, or him, or whatever you'd like to call it. It really doesn't matter, does it? My children usually call me Dad. But, there are other times they call me Daddy, or Pop, and, when they're mad at me, it's Stephen. Do you think I care what they call me. I would only care if they did not.

With God, everything is pretty simple. It is religion, and religious people, and the ego in us all that complicates things. What could be less complicated than knowing God? Why would God, if it is true she wants to know and walk with us, make it difficult or complicated for us to do so? And, when it comes to your life and mine, what could you ever do or accomplish that could mark your life as more significant than walking in the Eternal bliss of God's ineffable presence? I can think of nothing, can you?




I've put up an entire post on my blog about this (and written a whole book about this and other matters related to the spiritual life), and I'd love to share some of the things I've learned with you. To get started, visit my blog at http://www.stevemcswain.com.




2012年6月23日 星期六

Work to Live - Live to Work, Is There Such Thing As a Work Life Balance?


Work life balance is a peculiar term. It gets blurted about as the ultimate solution for everyone's modern day worries. If you have your work life balance sorted out, then you are somehow -it seems- onto a winner. But I have never come across anyone who said that they had theirs sorted. In fact I have never come across anyone who felt that they loved their work and had ample time to live their life.

But is there really such a thing as work life balance? First of all it clearly implies that you have a work life on the one hand and on the other side, adjacent to that, a life. Does that then mean that you are 2 different people, that you have 2 different objectives and 2 different set of values? Does that mean you go and do your "work thing" (inevitably spending the largest part of your day) to come back to live your life? And isn't the notion of "balancing" the two a sheer contradiction in terms and a set up for a fall?

You are one whole person and if you maintain a house, a job/business, a family, friends, hobbies and so on then you are operating within a merry-go-round of day to day things. Responsibilities are always going to be pulling and there are prices to be paid and rewards to be had. It is supposed to be fun, enjoyable, somewhat chaotic but ultimately and hopefully the fulfilling road you are on. It is not a seesaw on which things weight heavier depending on where you stand. Your job or your business is hopefully something you enjoy and therefore your expression into the world which sustains all the other things you do. An integral part of who you are.

Maybe it is supposed to be "life balance". This is one step better as it is not segregating your 50 hour work life to a different planet. But is "life balance" not as much as a lie as work life balance? How can life be balanced? Per definition it is not and probably never will be. Things get thrown at you every day, some are unexpected, some you can plan for but it will ultimately always rock the boat to a greater or lesser degree. So then you are left with just "life" and "life" cannot be managed, although we read untold amount of articles, self help books and magazines to attempt to find the solution.

There is only one place you can aim to have balance or manage things from. That is from your own life and your own perception. The attitude with which you approach things can very much be within your control, the way you decide to view things, the way you interpret situations to yourself, the self talk you allow, the stance you uphold and the beliefs you harbour. Thinking before you speak, seeing a glass half full, learning to say no and living in integrity are all to do with a kind of conscious living that will fulfill and balance you to a point that you enjoy life with gratitude whilst you are going places, loving your work within a lovely life.




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